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6 Ways to Get Him to Talk About Feelings (Advice from a Dude!)
How do I get him to talk about feelings? I admit that this is something I need to learn more about myself. The truth is that I want him to be more chatty, able to traverse multiple topics at once and more open to share his feelings. In other words, I want my man to be more like a woman. We women make that mistake often; expecting our men to act like women. As Ben discusses, they are more open to connecting on a real emotional level, you just may have to teach them how.
They show their emotion through their behavior and how they talk, not necessarily by what they say. To get a guy talking about his emotional state of mind is like baking a cake: you need these 10 ingredients, mix them gently, and then let it all sit and bake for a bit for the best result. For men to open up, they have to trust you first. So work on your relationship and show that you can be trusted with his deepest emotions. He is not a child you need to guide, reprimand, or make decisions for.
Just like men try to push for sex, and they naturally want sex, you want to know where on earth a relationship is going! You want security. Our ancestors needed security for us to be here today. They sure seeked it out, and that biological NEED for a woman to seek out security is still there within you. That makes expressing your feelings and needs to a man difficult.
You might be wondering if your new boo is into you, or just trying to get it in. You probably want an expert to give you a concrete answer to un-complicate your overactive mind. Yes please, same, that would be great. Well, hold onto your panties, because Elite Daily consulted two dating experts on the matter and here's the deal: There are no subtle tricks to get your guy to reveal his feelings. This isn't Hogwarts; this is modern love.