Finding True Love: The 4 Essential Keys to Bring You the Love of Your Life by Daphne Rose KingmaThis is a very interesting book about how to open your heart to let room in for love. The four essential keys to discovering love in this book are Faith, Intention, Trust and Surrender. I think the hardest one for me is Surrender. It is hard for me to allow myself to be vulnerable and to let go, but that is the only way to be truly in love is to be open and vulnerable. It is scary. I dont want to be hurt. But I want to be in love. She has a lot of very good advice like understanding that each failed relationship taught me something to become who I am today and because of that they were each a gift and important to finding the true love that I long for.
Things that she mentions are to say Im going to surrender to love through some specific action. Yes, here are all the difficult, scary, and absolutely devastating things that could happen now that Im feeling so deeply connected. Because Im feeling such joy, I could feel the most devastating sorrow if I lost this. But in spite of that sad possibility, Im not going to let go of this love. In fact, Im going to hold on to it, cherish it, and enjoy it for every minute it lasts. I promise Ill tell you exactly what Im feeling, and I am willing to hear exactly what youre feeling as our experience together unfolds.
I dont know if I am quite there yet, but I after reading this book I am closer to being truly ready to truly love someone. I am not going to be afraid. I will enjoy the ride and graciously be thankful for every day and each new experience.
9 Nonfiction Books About Love That Will Completely Change How You Feel About Finding "The One"
Most people who get divorced want to get into another relationship. Some dive directly into new relationships, barely pausing for breath. Others take their sweet time about it, and they wait until they feel completely ready for a new love. The period after a breakup is the perfect time for a little post-relationship debriefing with trusted friends. It's also a great time for some self-reflection about what you're looking for in a new relationship.
Because most women find it hard to let go of baggage and often bring a fear of being hurt into new ones, The Power of Now is a must-read. Focusing on how to stay present in your daily life, this book will show you how to let go of toxic thoughts that can unknowingly sabotage the love you want. You won't find it in the self-help section of the bookstore, but the principles in the book are so applicable to relationships that it's the first one I recommend. Most women I coach share a common belief that they are somehow not deserving of a good relationship. This thought is what author Don Miguel Ruiz would call "an agreement. Because I was once a desperately seeking single girl myself, I know how frustrating dating can be.
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Self-Hypnosis Meditation: How to Find True Love
Do you believe in true love? Love at first sight? Literature has always shown us that true love can be magical, and it can be quotidian. Readers have seen true love exist in the smallest parts of life, as well as in the grand romantic gestures. In literature, true love can move the earth and stars, and it can withstand the most intense obstacles. Every time you read about true love, you get the chance to discover something new about yourself and the way that you bring love into this world. But books have also asked a lot of important questions about love.
Guest Contributor. If you are the kind of person that likes to dive head first in to a book about love and dating, then there is no better place to start than with this top ten list. Any book by Barbara De Angelis is a good place to start; she is often regarded as one of the founding mothers of relationship self-help literature. This particular book is one of her best sellers, and it leaves no stone unturned in the discussion of why exactly we fall for the people that we fall for. Barbara knows a thing or two, and the book can do wonders for helping you find the person who is most right for you. If you are interested in the age old comparison between men and women and Mars and Venus, then this book will interest you with its exploration of just how differently male and female energies approach dating.